When Being Now-Oriented Looks Like Selfishness
Planners often think ahead and consider long-term consequences. From that perspective, someone focused on the present moment may appear short-sighted or even self-centered.
That present focus may reflect a Mover-style values lens. Movers often believe life is meant to be experienced fully in the moment. They cherish the freedom to make their own choices and may assume others will speak up if they need something.
🔎 Before assuming someone is being selfish, ask yourself: Could they simply be focused on making the most of the opportunity right now?
Understanding the values behind behavior often changes the story we tell ourselves about other people. If this insight resonates with you, explore more examples of Personality Styles Misunderstood
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